"This is kind of embarrassing, but: I just started dating and I'm worried about sex. Specifically, I'm a girl, and I have hair down there. Am I supposed to shave or trim? Will guys or girls be turned off if I don't? How do you groom down there? I don't want to gross anyone out if we make it to the bedroom." This is a great question and one that lots of people wonder about. Above al else, I want to say: your body is for you and no one else. No one gets to dictate how you look,