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Ask Ang (11/22): Dating During the Pandemic?

How should I navigate dating during the pandemic? Oh man, we can relate to this question! First, we want to acknowledge that all of this sucks. LOTS of people are feeling extremely isolated and lonely, so you’re not alone in that. In terms of dating during a pandemic, make sure you’re being thoughtful and considering all the risks that you’re taking on. Obviously there are risks to meeting up with people, but there are other ways to form connections- you could try phone or video calls as a way to get closer without actually risking an in-person interaction. This can also be a good way to meet someone and figure out if you want to pursue anything further, without taking the risk right off the

Ask Ang (11/2): Is scissoring a thing?

Question: Is scissoring a thing? Yes.... but honestly, really no. It’s definitely incorrect to think of scissoring as the equivalent of the ‘main event’ of sex for two people with vaginas. However, this is still a pretty common conception for two reasons. First of all, we’ve been brought up with the idea that sex always equals penetration. But the wide landscape of LGBTQ+ sex is evidence that that’s not necessarily true. Second of all, vulva-to-vulva scissoring may seem like the closest thing to penetration that two people with vaginas can do. But that’s also definitely not true! For these reasons (and more, who knows :/ ) mainstream lesbian porn directed by and aimed at heterosexual men fi